What are you waiting for? Do you think someone is going to come and help you?
This is one of the thoughts that Bikram shares in one of his recorded classes of yoga and it hits me strongly every time I listen to it. Probably because of the estate of openness that I am in during the class.
This brings the idea that you are not a victim.
Or that being a victim doesn´t help.
Nobody is going to come and help you.
You are on your own in this world. Do whatever is needed to enjoy your stay here.
You are responsible for your life.